Nope, they never met. But there are similarities.
They both were extremely important. One for the Russian population, history and indeed, the ‘free world’.
The other for my Dad, my brother and me personally.
They both were born at almost the same time, and lived to be 89 years old.
They both died almost at the same time too. Mom died last night at 23:30.
Guess who I think was more important !?
Yes, Mom died last night in the nursing home. Nina and I, Vivian and Menno were with her. She never regained consciousness after she fell asleep on Saturday night. The medical staff saw to it she had no pain and was laying there peacefully.
It was not nice….. for us. If you can, avoid being around dying people. Having said that, please make sure you are there for your loved ones if you can, even if they can’t hear, see or feel you anymore…… or so you think!
This morning I arranged the funeral, for Friday. I also have a major migraine…. I guess at least this time I have a good reason for one.
We are at peace with the fact that Mom’s gone. We saw her every day for the past 4 months, except for the 4 days we drove to France….. and back.
Dad was with her for 6 hours every day, keeping her company.
We have said things to each other, laughed together, and cried some. We have helped each other, she leafed through our book many times, enjoyed the paintings we hang on the hospital wall for her, and the plants we put on the table.
Mom would not have gotten better, the cancer took car e of that, thank you very much. So it is good she is gone now and will be spared for any pain and further hardship. The operation she had and the stay in hospital was bad enough.
When this is all ‘wrapped up’ maybe we can go back to the mountains for a few weeks….. and ride….. before we focus on our next ‘issue’: Dad.
You’ll excuse me for not having been around much, or being around much over the next days and weeks.. we’ve got things to catch up, things to do, and some crying to do on some mountain top or other.